When shopping for a wedding dress, you’re laser-focused on the style, fit, and the way the gown makes you feel about your Big Day because that is, above all, the most important thing, right?
Bridal undergarments generally take a backseat and they’re often considered after the dress has already been ordered, usually the moment you stop, think, and proceed to have this mini freak-out with yourself:
“Wait. What the heck am I going to wear under that strapless open-back gown?”
If you can relate to that feeling right now, try not to stress about it too much. There really is a bra out there to accommodate every bodice humanly imaginable… somewhere.
Although underwire bras are a typical choice because of the lift and support they provide, they’re not necessarily the most comfortable option for 12+ hour wear. Especially if your reception is going to be running late into the night or wee hours of the next morning.
Thankfully, there are plenty of wire-free bras to choose from, no matter what kind of neckline or bodice you’ll be rocking down the aisle and across the dance floor.
Let’s take a quick look at my best soft-cup wedding bra recommendations:
| Brand + Bra | Size Range | Large-Breast Support? | Best For |
| Honeylove CrossOver | 30A to 44G | Yes | Scoop, square, high neck, V-neck bodices; some bateau and Queen Anne |
| Aerie Sunnie Bloom Lace | 30A to 40D | Somewhat | Scoop, square, high neck, V-neck bodices; some bateau and Queen Anne |
| Victoria’s Secret Invisible Perfect Comfort Strapless | 32A to 44G | Yes | Strapless, off-shoulder, lacy Queen Anne, illusion, one-strap, asymmetrical, crossback, halter bodices |
| SheCurve Strapless Invisible Push Up | A through E | Yes | Open-back bodices |
| Soft N’ Savage Lace Bralette | XS through 4X | Yes | Scoop, square, high neck, V-neck bodices; some bateau and Queen Anne |
The Most Comfortable Wireless Bras to Wear Under Your Wedding Dress
Considering that you’re going to be “trapped” in your gown for hours if not most of an entire day by the time the end of the reception rolls around, comfort is key… but so is wearing a bra that lifts and supports you with a flattering shape that enhances your bodice.
It’s a tall order, I know, but the picks below are the very first ones you should consider.
Honeylove CrossOver Bra
- Best for: scoop, square, high neck, V-neck; some bateau and non-lace Queen Anne necklines.
For long-wear comfort, the CrossOver Bra from Honeylove is hands-down (or boobs-up) the best choice when your wedding dress can accommodate a classic or “standard” bra.
Available in sizes 30A to 44G, this is a simple yet stylish soft-cup bra that just gets the job done, even (and especially) if you’re large-breasted. As the owner of a set of G-cups, you can check out my full review of the CrossOver right here.
What I love most about this bra is the smoothing it offers everywhere, especially on the sides and underarms. You’ll get absolutely no spillage with this one, just a perfectly sleek shaping.
Speaking of shaping, the CrossOver works like shapewear for your breasts, with natural contouring and lift that’s surprising given the lack of an underwire. Although this is a favorite of mine as a daily bra, it’s a great choice to wear beneath wedding gowns or formals, offering hours of comfort and support.
This is a full-coverage bra, but if you need a lower-cut neckline, the CrossOver V-Neck Bra features the same signature shaping and support of the original CrossOver, with a deeper front to accommodate bodices that show a little more cleavage.
Honeylove CrossOver Pros:
- Effective lift, support, and shaping without an underwire
- Full coverage that’s smoothing from every angle
- Convertible straps can be worn criss-cross in the back
- Great size range (30A to 44G)
- 30-day free returns or exchanges if the fit isn’t right
Honeylove CrossOver Cons:
- Cannot accommodate dresses with bared shoulders or open backs
- Limited number of “skin tone” shades available
- Slightly higher price point (over $65), although worth it
Aerie Sunnie Bloom Lace Trim Bra
- Best for: scoop, square, high neck, V-neck; some bateau and non-lace Queen Anne necklines.
Featuring a deeply-cut V that accommodates more dress bodice styles, the Sunnie Bloom Lace Trim Bra from Aerie is made from super-soft material that feels like a second skin.
The gorgeous lace detailing along the band is what really makes this one stand apart from the rest, as it’s sweetly feminine and flattering while also managing to be seamless beneath clothing.
This is considered a full-coverage bra, offering medium support with natural shaping.
The one major drawback to the Sunnie Bloom Lace Trim Bra is the limited size range, which only suits 30A to 40D band and cup sizes. Like many bras from Aerie, there is no hook-and-eye closure; the bra pulls on and off like a shirt.
Sunnie Bloom Pros:
- Lightly lined for optimal shaping and support
- Full coverage, but features a deep V-cut to accommodate more wedding bodice styles
- Incredibly soft, stretchy material
- Great price point (under $50)
Sunnie Bloom Cons:
- Limited size range doesn’t accommodate those larger than a D-cup
- Limited color options in this particular style, although the “Vanilla” is a very pretty off-white
Invisible by Victoria’s Secret
- Best for: strapless, off-shoulder, lacy Queen Anne, illusion, one-strap, asymmetrical, crossback, and halter bodices.
You might not think a strapless bra would be capable of providing enough support or shaping without the use of an underwire, but you’d be wrong.
The Invisible Perfect Comfort Wireless Push-Up Strapless Bra is a heck of a mouthful to say out loud, but it lives up to its name in every single way.
This bandeau-style strapless wonder lifts, contours, and smooths as if defying gravity, and it does it through an “inner grip technology” that keeps the support in place no matter how you move throughout the day. Molded padding in the cups provides push-up shaping that accentuates your curves seamlessly beneath any dress.
Although the Invisible is strapless, it includes attachable straps that can be worn four ways to accommodate your gown’s bodice: classic, crossback, halter, or one-strap.
One of the most adaptable bras in this list, the Invisible from Victoria’s Secret is hands-down my top strapless recommendation.
Invisible Bra Pros:
- Comfortable lift and natural shaping in a strapless design
- Included straps can be worn to accommodate various dress bodice styles
- Extensive size range (32A to 44G)
- Great price point (under $50)
- Multiple “skin tone” shades to choose from, along with white
Invisible Bra Cons:
- Doesn’t accommodate low necklines
- Back band won’t work with open-back or low-back bodices
SheCurve Strapless Invisible Push Up Bra
- Best for: open-back bodices.
If you’ve been searching for a wireless bra to pair with an open-back wedding gown, you’ve probably already discovered that options are pretty limited. Most wire-free strapless bras have a band through the middle of your back, but low-back bra styles tend to use a wire for support.
So what’s a gal to do?
Head over to SheCurve, because their Strapless Invisible Push Up Bra is a soft-cup wonder that uses washable, skin-friendly silicone to remain in place without a band at all.
The most amazing thing about this bra is that you can fully control the amount of cleavage and support you want based on how tightly you tie the lacing between the cups.
And without a band, it’s perfect beneath any dress bodice that’s open in the back or on the sides.
Although it feels strange to buy a bra based only on cup size, the Strapless Invisible Push Up Bra from SheCurve fits cup sizes A through E.
SheCurve Pros:
- No band around the ribcage (at all!)
- Washable and reusable silicone adhesive
- Center lacing for adjustable cleavage and support
- Sizing up to an E cup
- Fantastic price point (under $25)
SheCurve Cons:
- Limited color options (Black or Nude)
- Not as much support as a bra with a full band
Soft N’ Savage Lace Bralette
- Best for: scoop, square, high neck, V-neck; some bateau and non-lace Queen Anne necklines.
When you’ve already got something old, something new, and something borrowed… but you’re still on the hunt for that little “something blue,” the Soft N’ Savage Lace Bralette is a sweet and sexy soft-cup favorite of mine.
I love Savage X Fenty for a lot of reasons, first and foremost being the body positivity of the brand as a whole. Lingerie is for every body, and everybody can find something that makes them feel comfortable and beautiful here.
As with most of Savage X Fenty’s lingerie, color is prevalent and although this particular bra doesn’t come in basic white or skin-tone shades, the Beachy Blue is a flattering pale shade that’s perfect beneath a wedding gown.
And the bonus? Of course there are a couple of sexy matching panties to pair with it!
There is a “slight” drawback to Savage X Fenty: Membership is required to get the best prices and deals on products carried by the company. That’s a small price to pay when you shop there frequently, however, and the $59.95 monthly fee can be paused at any time.
Soft N’ Savage Bralette Pros:
- Pullover style (no hook-and-eye closure)
- Soft, stretchy lace detailing
- Comfortable soft cups and adjustable straps
- Non-standard “wedding” colors, including a perfect pale blue
- Matching panties available in thong or cheeky cuts
- Sizing from XS to 4X
Soft N’ Savage Bralette Cons:
- Being soft-cup and lace, support is lower compared to others in this list
- Savage X Fenty members get cheaper pricing compared to non-members, but membership costs $59.95 per month
How To Pick A Bra For Your Wedding
If you’re feeling a little lost while trying to choose the best bra to wear beneath your wedding dress, these tips will make the process a little less daunting:
- Consider the cut first: The shape of the bodice, particularly the neckline and back, is the most important factor. You don’t want any part of your bra to be visible. A quick bra-to-dress reference guide:
- Classic bra, balconet, or bralette: best paired with scoop, square, high neck, or V-neck bodices; may work with some Queen Anne or bateau (boat) necklines
- Strapless bra: best for any bodice that bares your shoulders, including sweetheart, off-shoulder, halter, illusion, lacy Queen Anne, or asymmetric necklines
- Plunge (U-cup bra): best for dresses with low-cut or deeply plunging necklines in the front
- Adhesive bra: best for gowns with open back bodices and/or deeply-cut plunges
- Select your bra color based on the dress material: Most bras are available in white or ivory, which (in theory) works well under similarly-hued dresses. Some wedding gown materials are delicate and borderline sheer, however, and a white or ivory bra may be visible underneath, especially in certain lighting (or amid camera flashes). It’s best to choose a bra color that is close to your skin tone, if possible, to avoid this.
- Don’t forget to consider the comfort of long-day wear: The earlier in the day your wedding takes place, the longer you’re gonna be wearing this bra, so comfort is definitely something to think about. If your ceremony is planned for noon, and your reception lasts after midnight, you’re looking at spending more than 12 hours in it. Soft-cup bras are best in this situation, since you won’t have to worry about wires digging into your ribcage.
Pro Tip: Bring your bra (or bra options) with you during dress alterations and fittings!
Closing Thoughts
Finding the perfect wedding bra is nearly as important as finding the perfect wedding dress.
Whether you’ll be walking down the aisle in a low-back strapless number or a Queen Anne ball gown, there is a wireless bra out there that will make you feel stunning (and secure) all day and well into the night.
Take your time and try several options, but don’t be afraid to invest in quality. You, and your Big Day, deserve nothing less than the best!